My father is my best friend A preteen boy came home excited, calling for his father. This astonishment hung a smile on his face and exclaimed "it was son!" So the boy told... "I've been liking a girl for a while, we're classmates, so apparently she's into me too." With his face discouraged, he continued: Today we'd give our first kiss, but a friend of ours got in our way, that's jealous, ahh! Then the father held the boy's head, smiled a little and said: It was worth the boy's trouble, maybe it's Allah protecting you from obscenity. What you were about to do is adultery... – But isn't adultery having sex with someone? He asked his son. "Not just champion," answered the father. And he quotes: Sayyiduná Abu Hurairah ر “ Their hands commit adultery, their adultery is touching; their feet also commit adultery; their adultery is walking into the act; their mouth also commits adultery; their adultery is kissing.” The son, having realized the crime he wanted to commit, looked up and uttered "Oh Allah! Forgive me for being so close to your disobedience." The father put his hand on his shoulder and said: Sayyiduná Umar ر “ Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Shaitán appears as a third person.” So, son, avoid having contact with strange women (who are allowed to marry), preserve yourself for your wife, as well as somewhere in the world she is preserving herself for you. I know you're not getting married so soon, and over time you will have temptations, but patient son, because Allah loves patients. It is normal to like someone, sometimes it is involuntary, but it will dictate halal or haram what you will do with such a feeling. MORAL OF HISTORY It's important to be friends with your children. They tell you almost everything that's going on in their lives, so it's easy to keep track, because if it's something bad you forbid it, if it's good you encourage it. Unfortunately there are few who have friendship with their children, today we have more are chiefs, children are even afraid of them. As a result, they have best friends out, who are often people with obscene ideas. Many feel that if they have friendship with their children, there will be no respect. Where is friendship no respect? Dear brother, dear sister, if your friends don't respect you, you allow it. Because any relationship is built with limits. There may indeed be a friendship of a son or daughter with his father, daughter or son with his mother, provided that they are imposed due limits. #Amizade #Inspiração