If you want to be treated like a boss, you better not even get married. Your wife is not there to be a servant, but a companion. Know how to speak and listen to it, if you err to forgive it, give due attention, love and affection. She's your baby so take care of her, spoil her and baby. Help in the kitchen and other homework, this does not lower your degree, rather you are being a gentleman, a follower of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ)'s Sunnah, and a servant obedient to Allah's orders, being someone better among many men. The Prophet said: “The best among you is the one who treats his wife better.” ‘Tirmizi’ If you're upset, talk to her, try to understand, and correct her in a soft tone. These are right words that make a person change, not because they're hard or scary. Don't try to make her fear you make her respect you. The Sovereign says: “ And harmonize yourselves among them, for if you despise them, you may be derogating beings whom Allah has endowed with many virtues.” ‘Qur'an 4:19» If you can't be her partner and friend, if you can't be tolerant and understandable to her, please don't marry, you'll just make her feel sad, insufficient and useless. No princess deserves this! #Casamento
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